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084 _aonline - DeGruyter
100 1 _aButler, Alexandra
_eautore
245 1 0 _aWalking the Night Road :
_bComing of Age in Grief /
_cAlexandra Butler.
264 1 _aNew York, NY :
_bColumbia University Press,
_c[2015]
264 4 _c©2015
300 _a1 online resource (184 p.)
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520 _aThe house looked as if she'd brushed it over with a hurried hand. Things were open—drawers, cans, and closets. A pile of newspapers fanned out across the floor by the front door, and still I did not wonder. She must have dropped them as she ran, I thought. My mother was often late. But had I stopped to look, I would have seen the fear in the way the house had settled—a footstool that lay on its side, several books that had fallen from their shelves. When you count back, you can see a story from the end. I like that—the seemingly natural narrative that forms this way. With the end in my hand, the story becomes mine. I can have it all make sense, or I can lose my mind like she lost hers—like I lost her. But I can have my story. Walking the Night Road speaks to the experience of caring for a loved one with a terminal illness and the difficulties of encountering death. Alexandra Butler, daughter of the Pulitzer Prize–winning gerontologist Robert N. Butler and respected social worker and psychotherapist Myrna Lewis, composes a lyrical yet unsparing portrait of caring for her mother during her sudden, quick decline from brain cancer. Her rich account shares the strains of caregiving on both the provider and the person receiving care and recognizes the personal and professional sacrifices caregivers must make to fulfill the role. More than a memoir of dying and grief, Butler's account also tests many of the theories her parents pioneered in their work on healthy aging. Authors of such seminal works as Love and Sex After Sixty, Butler's parents were forced to rethink many of the tenets they lived by while Myrna was incapacitated, and Butler's father found himself relying heavily on his daughter to provide his wife's care. Butler's poignant and unflinching story is therefore a rare examination of the intimate aspects of aging and death experienced by practitioners who suddenly find themselves in the difficult position of the clients they once treated.
538 _aMode of access: Internet via World Wide Web.
546 _aIn English.
588 0 _aDescription based on online resource; title from PDF title page (publisher's Web site, viewed 26. Apr 2024)
650 0 _aCaregivers
_xPsychology
_vCase studies.
650 0 _aGlioblastoma multiforme
_xPatients
_xFamily relationships.
650 0 _aGlioblastoma multiforme
_xPatients
_zUnited States
_vBiography.
650 0 _aGrief
_vCase studies.
650 0 _aMothers and daughters
_zUnited States.
650 0 _aTerminal care
_xPsychological aspects
_vCase studies.
650 0 _aWomen caregivers
_zUnited States
_vBiography.
650 7 _aBIOGRAPHY & AUTOBIOGRAPHY / Personal Memoirs.
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856 4 0 _uhttps://doi.org/10.7312/butl16752
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