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035			_a(DE-B1597)547788
035			_a(OCoLC)906957437
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082	0	4	_a362.82/920973 _220
084			_aonline - DeGruyter
100	1		_aGraham, Dee L.R. _eautore
245	1	0	_aLoving to Survive : _bSexual Terror, Men's Violence, and Women's Lives / _cDee L.R. Graham.
264		1	_aNew York, NY : _bNew York University Press, _c[1994]
264		4	_c©1994
300			_a1 online resource
336			_atext _btxt _2rdacontent
337			_acomputer _bc _2rdamedia
338			_aonline resource _bcr _2rdacarrier
347			_atext file _bPDF _2rda
490	0		_aFeminist Crosscurrents ; _v3
505	0	0	_tFrontmatter -- _tContents -- _tList of Tables -- _tForeword -- _tPreface -- _tAcknowledgment -- _tONE. Love Thine Enemy: Hostages and Classic Stockholm Syndrome -- _tTWO. Graham's Stockholm Syndrome Theory: A Universal Theory of Chronic Interpersonal Abuse -- _tTHREE. "Here's My Weapon, Here's My Gun; One's for Pleasure, One's for Fun": Conditions Conducive to Women's Development of Societal Stockholm Syndrome -- _tFOUR. En-Gendered Terror: The Psychodynamics of Stockholm Syndrome Applied to Women as a Group in Our Relations with Men as a Group -- _tFIVE. The Beauties and the Beasts: Women's femininity, Love of Men, and Heterosexuality -- _tSIX. Moving from Surviving to Thriving: Breaking Out of Societal Stockholm Syndrome -- _tAPPENDIX. Potential Aspects of Stockholm Syndrome -- _tNotes -- _tReferences -- _tIndex
506	0		_arestricted access _uhttp://purl.org/coar/access_right/c_16ec _fonline access with authorization _2star
520			_aHave you wondered: Why women are more sympathetic than men toward O. J. Simpson? Why women were no more supportive of the Equal Rights Amendment than men? Why women are no more likely than men to support a female political candidate? Why women are no more likely than men to embrace feminism--a movement by, about, and for women? Why some women stay with men who abuse them? Loving to Survive addresses just these issues and poses a surprising answer. Likening women's situation to that of hostages, Dee L. R. Graham and her co- authors argue that women bond with men and adopt men's perspective in an effort to escape the threat of men's violence against them. Dee Graham's announcement, in 1991, of her research on male-female bonding was immediately followed by a national firestorm of media interest. Her startling and provocative conclusion was covered in dozens of national newspapers and heatedly debated. In Loving to Survive, Graham provides us with a complete account of her remarkable insights into relationships between men and women. In 1973, three women and one man were held hostage in one of the largest banks in Stockholm by two ex-convicts. These two men threatened their lives, but also showed them kindness. Over the course of the long ordeal, the hostages came to identify with their captors, developing an emotional bond with them. They began to perceive the police, their prospective liberators, as their enemies, and their captors as their friends, as a source of security. This seemingly bizarre reaction to captivity, in which the hostages and captors mutually bond to one another, has been documented in other cases as well, and has become widely known as Stockholm Syndrome. The authors of this book take this syndrome as their starting point to develop a new way of looking at male-female relationships. Loving to Survive considers men's violence against women as crucial to understanding women's current psychology. Men's violence creates ever-present, and therefore often unrecognized, terror in women. This terror is often experienced as a fear for any woman of rape by any man or as a fear of making any man angry. They propose that women's current psychology is actually a psychology of women under conditions of captivitythat is, under conditions of terror caused by male violence against women. Therefore, women's responses to men, and to male violence, resemble hostages' responses to captors. Loving to Survive explores women's bonding to men as it relates to men's violence against women. It proposes that, like hostages who work to placate their captors lest they kill them, women work to please men, and from this springs women's femininity. Femininity describes a set of behaviors that please men because they communicate a woman's acceptance of her subordinate status. Thus, feminine behaviors are, in essence, survival strategies. Like hostages who bond to their captors, women bond to men in an effort to survive. This is a book that will forever change the way we look at male-female relationships and women's lives.
538			_aMode of access: Internet via World Wide Web.
546			_aIn English.
588	0		_aDescription based on online resource; title from PDF title page (publisher's Web site, viewed 06. Mrz 2024)
650		0	_aAbusive men _zUnited States.
650		0	_aWomen _xCrimes against _zUnited States.
650		0	_aWomen _zUnited States _xPsychology.
650		7	_aSOCIAL SCIENCE / Women's Studies. _2bisacsh
653			_aGraham.
653			_aLikening.
653			_aThis.
653			_aadopt.
653			_aagainst.
653			_aargue.
653			_abond.
653			_abook.
653			_achange.
653			_aco-authors.
653			_aeffort.
653			_aescape.
653			_aforever.
653			_ahostages.
653			_alives.
653			_alook.
653			_amale-female.
653			_amens.
653			_aperspective.
653			_arelationships.
653			_asituation.
653			_athat.
653			_athem.
653			_athreat.
653			_aviolence.
653			_awill.
653			_awith.
653			_awomen.
653			_awomens.
700	1		_aBarry, Kathleen _eautore
850			_aIT-RoAPU
856	4	0	_uhttps://doi.org/10.18574/nyu/9780814732601.001.0001
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